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在日常工作中，我們身邊充斥著各種各樣的抱怨。抱怨薪水與付出不符、抱怨績效考核不公、抱怨家庭不和、抱怨上天不公平等等，這些抱怨有些是別人說給自己聽的，有些是自己說給別人聽的，唯獨沒有人自己抱怨自己：我為什麼有這麼多抱怨呢？

In our daily life, we are filled with all sorts of complaints. There are complaints about the disproportion between salaries and works, complaints about an unfair performance review, complaints about the disharmony in the family, complaints about the unfairness of life, etc. Some of these complaints are told by others, and some are told to others. What’s peculiar is that no one complains about themselves and says, “How can I have so many complaints?”

過多的抱怨就如一種慢性腐蝕劑，在腐蝕自己的同時，也在消磨別人的鬥志，它就像可以「潰堤」的螞蟻，讓整個世界轟然倒塌！不過，如果你一直和愛抱怨的人出去，你也會漸漸變得不快樂。同樣的，如果你也常常向朋友、同事抱怨，你也將負面情緒帶入他們的生活。

The excessive number of complaints is like a chronic corrosive agent that corrodes oneself and at the same time kills others’ morale. It is like a small leak that sinks a great ship and collapses the whole world! If you always hang out with haters, you will gradually become unhappy. Similarly, if you often complain to friends and colleagues, you will also bring negative emotions into their lives.

抱怨不同於坦然承認失敗。敢於承認失敗的人，會贏得別人的尊重，人們如同看到一個傷痕累累且神色平靜的勇士或英雄。人們本來容易同情弱者，由於抱怨的人氣急敗壞，反而會得不到別人的同情。

Complaining is different from admitting failure. Those who dare to admit defeat earn the respect of others; people see them as wounded warriors or heroes with a calm expression on their faces. People often feel sympathy for the weak. On the contrary, haters with anger and complaints constantly don’t get sympathy from others.

人們往往傾心於那些樂觀的人，實際上是傾心於他們表現出來的超然。生活需要的信心、勇氣和信仰，樂觀的人都具備。他們在自己獲益的同時，又感染著別人。樂觀也包括豁達、堅韌，讓人覺得困難從來都不是生活的障礙，而是勇氣的陪襯。和樂觀的人在一起，自己也會得到快樂。

People love those who are optimistic. In fact, people love them for the otherworldly manners they show. Optimistic people possess the confidence, courage, and faith in their lives. They can benefit themselves while infecting all those around them. Optimism also includes open-mindedness and perseverance that make people realize that difficulties are never obstacles in life, but foils of courage. Hanging with optimistic people can make to happy as well.

誰都不願接近牢騷滿腹的人，怕自己也受到傳染，失去勇氣和朋友，人生會變得更艱難。他們不知道，人生有許多方法可以克服困難，不抱怨就是其中妙計之一。

No one wants to get close to a person who is full of grouch; this is out of the fear of being infected, losing courage and friends, and leading to a more miserable life. They don't know that there are many ways to overcome difficulties in life—not complaining is one of them.

任何人、任何團隊要想成功，就永遠不要抱怨，要有接納批評的包容心，以及解決問題的行動力，因為抱怨不如改變現狀！抱怨是最消耗能量的無益舉動。有時候我們的抱怨不僅會針對人，也會針對不同的生活情境，以表示我們的不滿。如果找不到人傾聽我們的抱怨，我們便會在腦海裡抱怨給自己聽。

Anyone or any team that wants to succeed should never complain, they should have the inclusiveness of accepting criticism and the ability to solve problems; because changing a bad situation is better and more important than complaining! Complaining is the most unhelpful action that only consumes energy. Sometimes our complaints not only target people but also target different life situations to merely express our dissatisfaction. If we can't find someone to listen to our complaints, we even complain to ourselves in our minds.

我們可以這樣看，天下只有三種事——我的事，他的事，老天的事。抱怨自己的人，應該試著學習完善自己、接納自己；抱怨他人的人，應該試著把抱怨轉成寬鬆的合作；抱怨老天的人，可以試著用發奮圖強的方式來實現自己的願望。這樣一來，你的生活會有想像不到的大轉變，你的人生也會更加美好、圓滿。停止你的抱怨，讓煩躁的心情平靜下來，你埋怨的這些事物，並不是導致你貧困的原因，根本原因在於你自身的心態，而這些心態，其實都是有辦法改變的。

There are only three things in the world - my things, his things and the things of God. Those who complain about themselves should learn to improve and accept themselves; those who complain about others should turn their complaints into tolerant cooperation; those who complain about God should achieve their own goals by means of hardworking. In this way, your life can have a big difference beyond your imagination, and your life can be more beautiful and complete. Stop your complaints and calm your irritated feelings down. What causes your poverty and emptiness is not those things you complain about. The root cause lies in your own mind which can be changed by you.

如果你喜歡抱怨，說明你倒楣的處境是咎由自取，說明你缺乏一種信念，而這種信念才是一切成功的基礎。

If you like to complain, it means your miserable situation is self-defeating and also indicate you’re lack of belief, and this kind of belief is actually the foundation of all success.